To the Girls...

[Blazey]

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
one old love she can imagine going back to...and one who reminds her how far she has come...
..enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to...
..something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
..a youth she's content to leave behind...
...a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age...
...a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
..one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...
...a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
...eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored..
..a feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
..how to fall in love without losing herself...
..how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship...
...when to try harder... and when to walk away...
...that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents...
...that her childhood may not have been perfect...but its over...
...what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
..how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...
...whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...
...where to go...be it to her best friend's kitchen table...or a charming inn in the woods...when her soul needs soothing...
..what she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and a year...


I need some work..how about you..*S

[Blazey]

Yup red..i agree..*hands you the polishing rag*..next.. [img]smile.gif[/img]

[imzredhead]

could ya pass me that rag when yer done, I think I need some polishing too [img]confused.gif[/img]

I like this tho...makes you really stop and think about your life, the choices you've made, and what you can control/change in it to make your tomorrow even better? *S*

[Mystyx]

I am very proud to say that I have mastered this list in the last 3 years and have successfully accomplished this level. Still smoothing out the edges, but I am there. Its a wonderful place to be and getting there was not easy, but I finally found ME in the process.

[PNSONR]

"...a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra..."

! !
i've seen that website!
hahahahaha

[SmokinLizzies]

Well Blazey, this might be your most fucked up post yet. Really! You don't need that crap, you don't need to know that shit.

All you need is life, love and dreams.

[Blazey]

Gary..bite me.. [img]rolleyes.gif[/img]

[SmokinLizzies]

I'm just telling you this because, if you're judging your life on all that stuff, you're being WAY to hard on yourself. I didn't mean to offend you.

[Blazey]

You never offend me... [img]smile.gif[/img] ..and i know exactly what you meant..but face it babe..your not a gurl!!!!!

[SmokinLizzies]

For holloween one year, you never would have been able to tell that..... [img]tongue.gif[/img]